How Friendship & Parenting Coach Noriko Abenojar Helps Neurodivergent Kids Build Social Skills — And Grew Her Support Into a Scalable Soul-led Online Business
Parents of neurodivergent children often live in triage mode: juggling therapies, school meetings, social challenges, and the emotional labor of advocating for a child who may be misunderstood. Noriko Abenojar’s work began exactly there — in the trenches, supporting families directly with practical strategies for social skills, emotional regulation, and friendship-building.
But the heartbreak of being effective for one family while still seeing countless others struggle pushed Noriko to ask the question: how can I scale this support without diluting what works?
That pivot — from intensive in-person coaching to an accessible online model — is what we unpack in this week’s episode of Money Magnet Mama.
Noriko’s approach is gentle but evidence-based. She combines social work training with practical coaching tools so parents can:
- scaffold social interactions for neurodivergent kids,
- teach micro-skills (turn-taking, perspective-taking, reading social cues) in a low-pressure way,
- and set up home systems that support friendship practice without shame.
What makes Noriko’s story powerful for entrepreneurs is how she made the business shift. She didn’t copy a cookie-cutter funnel. Instead she:
- validated demand with her existing client base,
- repackaged real in-person supports into group formats and parent toolkits,
- built gentle evergreen entry points so families can find help on their timetable,
- and protected her bandwidth so she could keep doing the deep, relational work she loves.
If you’re a service-based provider who wants to scale but hates the idea of losing your heart in the process, this episode is a masterclass in doing both: creating more impact and more hours of life for yourself.


